Thursday, August 28, 2008

There were some good times as well...

On the swing at the school playground...or reading with Grandpa...
or spending hours and hours with Alice building an X-wing fighter...
or spending hours and hours on the trampoline, with and without the sprinkler.
Even Alastair loved it, along as the rest of the kids didn't bounce too high.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

I'm so glad when Brenna comes to visit...

What would I have done without her when we were baking cookies?Or mopping the floor?
(notice the gardening gloves)
Or dusting the furniture?
She even helped pick up all the apples that had fallen from the tree.
What a great helper!

Thursday, August 21, 2008

On a short trip to Wisconsin...

Now that school has begun, it's time to post some recent happenings. Like the quick 3-day trip to Wisconsin to celebrate Catherine's birthday (a major milestone one that ended in a zero) and have some fun.
Unfortunately, Kevin had to work and didn't get to go with us. But Lily, the dog, can now recognize when we're getting close to Catherine's house and she gets so excited. Afterall, this is the house where food "falls from the sky". When we arrived, the dog didn't rush to check the smells on the trees left by other dogs--she ran into the house and checked under the kids' chairs for any tasty morsels that had fallen.While Connor was at a tennis class, the rest of us cooled off by wading in the creek.

Later, Catherine taught us how to make cool jewelry.
And on a warm afternoon, the slip-n-slide was fun for big and little kids. All of this was prelude to the next phase--taking Connor and Brenna home with us to Iowa!

Monday, August 18, 2008

When Tonsils Turn Against You

On Friday morning, I took Alice to have her tonsils removed.
"No food or drink after midnight. Arrive at 7:20 a.m."
The outpatient surgical unit is attached to a group of doctors' offices, so it isn't in a hospital, and doesn't smell like a hospital. The nurses were very nice and spent a lot of personal time with Alice, addressing any concerns she had. They used a topical anesthetic before putting in the IV. They did everything they could to make this as easy as possible. They even let me go with her into the operating room and be with her until she fell asleep with the anesthesia.
Then it was only a half hour before the doctor came out to tell me those tonsils had been HUGE and there was no option but to have them removed.
Also, the adenoids did not need any further work.
As Alice came up out of the anesthesia, she would give such big grins at me, but she wouldn't let me take a picture post-surgery. I fully understand. I wouldn't want any post-surgical pictures of me either! (It would look worse than any passport photo!).
She's been surviving on popsicles, pudding, ice cream, applesauce, instant mashed potatoes, soup, and fruit smoothies.
The doctor prescribed liquid Lortab, so she has been a bit on the loopy side, but the pain is better that way.
On the up side, on Saturday she watched a marathon of Fred Astaire movies on TV.
On Sunday, she didn't want to stay home by herself and went to church with us. After the first hour, she said she could make it through the whole block. And she did! But after a quick lunch she slept 4 hours straight.
She's hoping to be able to attend school when it starts on Wednesday.

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Where did the summer go?

I can't believe it has been a month since I last posted. After our Idaho vacation, I looked forward to lazy days by the pool with a book in hand, and I think maybe I've had one or two of those days, but nothing like what I was hoping for!

As usual, it is the schedules of others in the family that seem to dictate what my schedule will be:
Elley's orthodontist appointment;
Girls' Camp;
a school physical for Alice that led to a Ear, Nose & Throat specialist, which led to a visit to an allergist AND to having her tonsils removed;
Elley going to EFY;
back to school clothes and supplies shopping;
going to Wisconsin for Catherine's birthday;
bringing back two grandchildren to spend the week;
Deborah coming to visit;
Catherine coming here to pick up her children;
helping with school registration
and
Kevin leaving for Mexico for a week.
Whew! Maybe when school starts this week I'll get to relax and read that book.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

When the canal is too cold...

...for floating, go to Warm River! There is something about crystal-clear water that invites the toes.Whether throwing rocks at a certain target,
or floating by, the water is almost magical.


And afterwards, you can wrap up in a warm towel.
(What is Grandpa looking at?)

Alice and Emily made many, many trips down the river. Still, the shade of a tree is sought after in the
middle of a sunny afternoon.
I hope our kids remember that Grandma Beth still goes camping at nearly 89 years of age!



Wednesday, July 16, 2008

When we REALLY want to relax...

One reality I've discovered. The larger the group, the longer it takes to plan something to answer the question, "What should we do now?"
Sometimes, it takes hours.
In the meantime, the downtime can be very refreshing.
Nieces are entertained by their aunt Deborah at Grandma Bailey's piano.
The cool basement often became the refuge in the afternoons of heat.
Brenna wanted her arms stroked, and her grandma loves doing that. Brenna goes into "la la land", and Emma thought she'd give it a try.
Although we loved doing things with the family, my favorite memories are just in being together.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Relaxation, Bailey-Style

For some reason, sitting around and doing nothing has never been part of the Bailey lifestyle. So we plan hot dog roasts in the orchard (even though there were rain clouds encircling us)... where cousins can have a great time with the roasted marshmallows.
Keeping the hot dog "sticks" from poking others makes the event a bit more exciting.
For further excitement, we build a potato gun.
Or two.
And then experiment with the fuel to make the potato fly the highest or furthest.
And if there is any free time, Bocce balls are always nearby.
No wonder the family loves gathering here.

Monday, July 14, 2008

Three Years Later...

On July 7, 2005 we visited the Idaho Falls zoo; we went again this year on July 1. I'm glad Alice wanted her picture at the same spot.
Again, 3 years ago,
and this year! How they have grown!


Sunday, July 13, 2008

Home Again...

Well, we made it home safely--no incidents on the way. The new tires made the ride so smooth--even though the old ones weren't worn out, they vibrated too much! And for those of you who missed the trip, this is the Flying J in Rock Springs, WY. I like stopping at the same places--then you know where the bathroom is located!I think that I am not the only one who missed my own bed while on vacation... Especially those days when there were so many people that an air bed on the basement floor was the best that could be found. I hope Connor and Brenna are sleeping better at home. I know that Arizona boasts of having beautiful sunsets (or they used to), but Idaho sunsets can be spectacular! Especially when helped with the smoky haze from the California wild fires.
I'm glad that we were able to go to the temple at least once during our stay. That brought a great end to the vacation. Being an introvert, being with a lot of people is draining for me even though I love them. The temple helped restore my equilibrium. And of course, being there with my sweetheart is the best of all!

More vacation pictures to come...

Thursday, June 19, 2008

At least it wasn't a pink flamingo...

Our local Suzuki Association decided to have a fun fundraising idea. Late at night you get a knock on the door to alert you that you are "in treble"! Of course, the idea is for you to pay a ransom to have it removed.
But we liked it!
The neighbors asked where we got such an ornament that fit so well with our house. We told Connor and Brenna (who were here at the time) that the music fairy left it for us.
Finally, after a week
we signed our names,
payed the forwarding fee,

and off it went (again late at night) to the Harrast family.

It wouldn't have been right for them to not have this before they moved to Michigan.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Yesterday, we volunteered...

We went last evening to help the Losh family. Their home was flooded in the North Cedar area of town. I forgot to take the camera, so I’ll have to paint a word picture of what we saw.
(The pictures included here are from the newspaper. The first two are of Cedar Falls, including the North Cedar area, from last week. The last two are in Cedar Rapids.)
First, we drove over the Main Street bridge which is flanked by brightly-colored sandbags that are to remain in place for the time being.

As we crossed the river, we were assailed by an unpleasant scent. At first I thought it was hog-farm-smell being blown into town by the breeze, (very unusual, but it could happen). Or was it “flood smell”?

The road still had huge puddles but someone had brought in extra gravel to build up the road (which was actually paved). Then we realized it wasn’t gravel, it was corn! and the smell was from wet, fermenting grain. We noticed the seven large grain silos of a Co-op(by the train tracks), with three or four of them leaning drunkenly. The flood water must have lifted the huge silos off their bases and scattered some of the corn. There were trucks there busily loading the corn that could be saved.

We wended our way to the Losh home, traveling a back way because a lake still covered a portion of the main road. There were fruit trees in their yard and it was easy to see how high the water had been—above the line, the leaves were vibrant, while below the leaves were dead. The water came up to the light on their front porch, and their wind chimes must have dangled in the flowing water.

We put on waterproof boots and rubber gloves and went in to see what we could do to help. The front porch was dry, except for the muddy footprints that came from inside the house. I was totally unprepared for what I saw. The water line in the living room was higher than my head.

A foot higher.

The family had prepared for the flood--after all, they are in a flood plain--by using large metal shelves that went up to the ceiling—stacked with their collections of books, craft items, old records, stamp collections, and electronics—DVD player, etc. We began filling garbage bags with all the sodden, muddy book things. The flat panel TV hung on the wall had a flood line across the front of it. They did save the things on the very top shelf—the things that didn’t fall off into the water when other things floated and bumped into the shelves.

Up to the water line, everything was the same color—dingy brown. With every step, the carpet oozed. We tried to be careful to not get the mud on any bare skin. Who knows what is in it (sewage and farm chemicals just to name two possible things)? And it had that decaying, mud-flat smell. Everyone is admonished to get a tetanus booster if they work in the flooded areas.

When picking up things off the floor, they were so slippery with the silty mud on them that they were hard to grasp with our vinyl gloves. We stayed until we had the living room emptied. The kitchen, bathroom and two bedrooms still need to be mucked out. The basement is still full of water. They have to pump it out slowly, so the walls don’t collapse. I’m afraid I’d be tempted to just walk away from the entire thing and begin over again. As it is, they will have to tear off and replace all the sheet rock in their home, and replace a lot of other things as well.

It was so sad to listen to Rita and Allen say, “Ohhh nooo!” as we loaded up a favorite book or item. Old scrapbooks. Important papers. On and on. They are nearing retirement and had been stockpiling things for their free time. Now those are almost all gone.


Kevin said on the way home, “Well. That was instructive! Maybe it’s time to get rid of some of our stuff. You either die and someone else has to dispose of it, or it’s lost in a flood, tornado, or fire. Either way, if you have too much stuff, it’s too much.” He would be a minimalist if I’d go along with it.

And we decided we’d rather clean up after a tornado than after a flood. With a tornado there is debris. With a flood there is muddy, icky debris.


Another thing I’ve found out—homeowner’s insurance does NOT cover flooding. You have to purchase a rider to cover sewer back-up, but if the water comes from outside you are not covered. The only way to get coverage is from a government agency, and then only if you are in a flood plain and your locality participates in the program. So most people do not have any insurance to help them with costs of the clean up.

And so far, everyone has been saying good things about FEMA and the Red Cross.

When we got home, we had to wash the car to get the decaying corn (and smell!) off it, and I couldn't wait to take a shower. We were lucky in that the day was pleasant--about 72 degrees. How much worse this would have been if it were raining, or hot & humid!

We're thankful for the little things, now.

Monday, June 16, 2008

The clouds haven't been all bad...

Not everything related to the weather has been bad.
We've had some amazing clouds this spring--and this view is unusual simply because the sky is so blue! Usually it is hazy with humidity. We are experiencing a bumper crop of strawberries! We picked these this morning, and it is about 8 times what we've ever had before in a single picking. Now we can make jam! Before it was just a handful that was eaten before it ever made it to the kitchen.
This is the iris that I thought Catherine gave me. She says that she doesn't have one like this. Where ever it came from, it is one of my favorites! And if you notice, there is even a stripe of yellow on the petal that should be all gold.
And the sweet william seed that Grandma Mildred Bailey gave me last summer is now blooming--reds, purples, pinks.
I love walking through the yard several times a day just to see all the beautiful things. And I am so grateful to Heavenly Father for all these things, for they truly do please the eye and gladden the heart.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Every cloud has a silver lining...

This is the view, too often, from our front window. 5 inches of rain last Sunday, 3 inches of rain Thursday morning, an inch of rain this morning. And yesterday, we even saw a section of cloud drop down--and it was rotating! A few minutes later, the tornado warning sirens went off. It never developed fully, but that is how it begins. As of Friday afternoon, the flood waters were receding. The water wasn't too kind to the asphalt.
Maybe the Dixieland Jazz Festival will be able to go on in less than 2 weeks.
I haven't heard what damage was done inside the museum, but it is in the drying out phase.

Most of Cedar Falls is in the drying out phase. Some ward members were affected. Some were affected in Waverly. But the worst is in Cedar Rapids. I can hardly fathom what they are experiencing there.